Why Change?

In most of my relationship experiences it starts out great then ends up horrible. I truly believe that most of this is due to the women trying to change something about me. Now, I'm the type that is pretty set in my ways. Meaning I know what I like, and what I want. Now to me that's not a bad thing it just means I wont settle for less. Is that wrong?

OK, so I have to ask a question to males and females alike. Why change for your significant other? Is it worth it in the end, ex specially if you end up not being together?

I personally say no it's not, stay who you are, and find a mate that fully understands you. The reason I say this is, when your in a relationship and you change something, 9 times out of 10 you will revert back to that changed behavior. And to me that is just an argument waiting to happen. Do you agree?

Ohhh, and trust me I'm sure some folks will use the old well if you love someone you will change for them card. Well then it's a 2 way street than, and the person who loves you should except you as is.

This is all I have for now, but I have much, much more for future blogs. And as always were adults here so be honest, open, and respectful.